Unsolicited, personal testimonies from parents who decided against abortion.
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In 2012, I was 18 and a recent high school graduate. My plan was to go to college. Little did I know that I would become pregnant that summer. I was excited because the person I thought was the love of my life would also be happy. I told him the news, and he was excited and supportive—at first. Then one day, everything changed. He started to act differently, and by this time we were living...
Date: November 26, 2015
I have faced the question of abortion in four of my five pregnancies. Each one fit some of the most common "pro choice" arguments. I was too young (16) I was pregnant by an abusive man. (I hesitate to call it rape, but I did not consent) The pregnancy was "not viable.” I already had three children, I had no money, and people would think badly of me. The last pregnancy was the only one that...
Date: October 27, 2015
On October 13, 1992, I gave birth to a baby girl. Two days later, she went home with her adoptive parents. Twenty-three years later, it is still the hardest and best decision I ever made. There are options. Releasing a child isn't easy; it's a hard road to travel and few take it, but my life is not full of guilt and “what ifs?” I know where she is; I know she was given a life I couldn't give her....
Date: October 19, 2015
I found out I was pregnant when I was nineteen. At the time, I was living over a thousand miles away from any friends and family, in an apartment with an abusive boyfriend who threw me out when he heard the news. I had only attended college for a year and had no money, no job, and nowhere to turn. For months, so many people pressured me: You need to have an abortion. It's the only way you'll have...
Date: October 19, 2015
I am 40 now, with three beautiful boys. I found out I was pregnant with my first son at 19. It changed my life forever. Was it a harder path? Sure. I had to drop out of pre-med and mommy up. I live with no regrets and have an amazing life now. My oldest son is truly a gift, with the kindest spirit I've ever seen in a person. I can't imagine NOT choosing life for him. It breaks my heart that some...
Location: Granger, IN
Date: October 10, 2015
My daughter is 14-years-old now and the most incredible thing in my life. She's extremely beautiful and talented as a dancer and a singer. I could never imagine my life without her. I used to be pro-choice, until I was confronted with the reality of this issue personally. Fourteen years later, I thank God every day that I know a woman who had enough courage, intellect, and love for life to tell...
Location: Streator, IL
Date: October 10, 2015
I was 18 when I found out I was pregnant and was not thrilled to find out the news. I told the father, and he was clearly stunned. He asked me what I wanted to do. I told him I had no idea. Since he was a few years older, he made the decision for both of us and dropped me off at Planned Parenthood the next week. A complete bundle of nerves, they called my name and I went up and spoke to the lady...
Location: Charlotte, North Carolina
Date: October 9, 2015
Jacob is four. He loves cars, and trucks, and Curious George. Daniel is two. He loves whatever Jacob has at the time. Aside from their mutual passion for Hot Wheels, they’re rather different little people—one is quite temperamental, while the other is kind of mellow. Their mom is a child photographer who specializes in newborns. She started out by taking pictures of the boys and posting them on...
Location: Marquette, MI
Date: October 9, 2015
I was 17 when I got pregnant. I was young, immature, and reckless. I let people take advantage of me. However, my foolishness turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me. My life then was very different than it is now, and it's hard to believe I am still the same person. Like many teenagers, I gave in to having sex with someone who I thought was a good person but turned out I barely...
Location: United States
Date: July 31, 2015
Twenty-two years ago, I was in what some would call a crisis situation. My husband had left my little daughter and me. We were alone. I had every intention of rebuilding my life, and that included remaining abstinent. I was so lost, lonely, and hurting that I didn't maintain my standard. Well, I ended up pregnant. I was just a baby Christian, and my mind hadn't quite been purged of the whole...
Location: Boise, ID
Date: June 23, 2015
I've shared my story with Abort73 and am thankful for the opportunity to finally find some peace. I had changed my mind about my abortion but was put under anyway, and the doctor punctured my uterus. It has taken 30 years but after finally speaking with a therapist, I have come to terms with what I did and what was done to me by some horrific "healthcare professionals.” I want to tell anyone who...
Location: Sequim, WA
Date: May 20, 2015
It was crazy for me as a guy going around having sex to not think about what would happen if I got one of the girls pregnant. A few months back, I did. At the start, it had no affect on me. I wasn’t the one having a child. Then I realized, I may not be the one, but as a man, I have to also take responsibility. I’m currently a father to twins. My girlfriend and I had the money to abort them, and...
Location: Charlotte, NC
Date: April 28, 2015
I got pregnant before I was ready. I was not married but engaged. I felt so depressed for the longest time. I did not want the baby. It was a long struggle but seeing my little girl now I know I made the right choice. I could not imagine what my world would be like without her in it. She lights up my life.
Date: April 23, 2015
I was 19 when I met my now ex-husband. To be honest, I should have never been with him in the first place, much less married him. But that's all water under the bridge. We were married for about five months when I started to not feel quite right. It was mid January. The only explanation I could think of was that I was pregnant. We were pretty poor at that time. I was the only one with a steady...
Location: Richmond, VA
Date: February 28, 2015
About eight years ago I befriended a person who wasn’t really a great friend, but for whatever reason, I felt the need to be there for her. For four years we were inseparable. I was there for her when she fell for the wrong guy and was hurt by him. I was there for her when her “best friend” stabbed her in the back. When the power was turned off at her house and her mother left her there alone, we...
Date: November 19, 2014